Category: Let's talk
like if something's on your mind. do you just say it or are you that little bit careful when it comes to thorts
It depends on who I'm with and what the situation is. I guess it also depends on my mood. I do try to be tactful when dealing with people, but if tact doesn't work then I quite often just let people have it both barrels as the saying goes. *smile*
Yeah i say what is on my mind all the time granted it may be things said that are harsh but I tell things like it is though
For me, tact is the way to go, unless of course the party in question are persons I know quite well, or am intoxicated as that does tend to free up people's inhibitions.
There are a lot of variables. Depends on who I'm with and my comfort level with them and whether I think they really need to know or not. Sometimes I ahve to think about how I want to put it, since I do not see myself as somebody who can be an instant wordsmith. Gotta kick things around for a bit.
It depends on the problem or topic. I can be a mean dog or a fluffy kitten in certain maters
yes I stand up for my beliefs, I don't really care whose listening. sometimes i wind up getting my ass kicked because of it but I really don't care.
It depends on who you talk to and what it is. But usually I am saying what's on my mind in a very kind way. Only if I am a bit scared of that person or if it is something very dramatic - then I write it down for them because this is sometimes easier.
Hmmm, I think I tend to be outspoken whatever the situation, to my detriment sometimes. The only exception might be when I'm in a completely new situation, but that's not always the case. In most circumstances, if I have something on my mind, then I say it. I am in the process of learning ways of saying things and responding to things without hostility!
i usually speak what's on my mind, but i definitely do it in a tactful way. way to go lucy, rock on girl!
I'm usually quiet in the first place, but when I do speak my mind, I do it tactfuly. If it is a pleasant conversation, I can talk easily. But if someone says something to me and they either have an attitude or whatever their thing is and I don't get why they're like that, it's honestly hard for me to react to it. I mean, I know I should tell them something, but what I want to say doesn't come to me at the moment, so I usually just try not to let it get to me. It's usually just a comment that someone has made or something, so if it's that, it's not a big thing to me anyway.
I will also speak my mind during a serious conversation too, of course, not just casual ones, just to clarify on my last post. *smiles* But my thing comes when someone says something I'm not expecting, like what I was saying on the last part of my last post.
I never say too much that what I say could be used against me to a harmful extent, but other than that, I'm like the Chemical Brothers, I Don't hold back.